I managed to put off the whole “commitment” conversation for another month. I guess I liked all the perks of having a boyfriend without actually having to make a decision on the whole thing. You’re talking and sharing things about you, then somehow it always ends back on him.

You’ll waste your time and will feel like shit the more time goes on. Just get on with your life and shrug it off as one of those things. More than length, it’s girth that matters during sex. A wider girth often brings women pleasure as we feel filled up, but too much width can cause pain as it’s simply uncomfortable to fit into a mouth, anus or vagina. Here are some tips for actually enjoying yourself during sex with a man who has an XXL dick. Daytime gives you a perspective on how real life would be with a guy.

‘My girlfriend wants to try swinging – am I a prude because I don’t want to share?’

If it did, I probably wouldn’t have done it. Experience doesn’t always matter when it comes to sex. Men, on the other hand, can benefit from the experience to make them last longer. During sex, they’ll find ways to distract themselves and slow everything down.

They never talk about the future.

There are so, so, so many guys in the world and you have to find one that will pursue you, and trust me, he’s out there. I know it’s really hard, but please don’t waste any more time on this boy. We met 8 months ago, we worked together for few months & everyone at work thought something was going on between us…he had a girlfriend at the time, so I made sure not to get attached. We would text all the time everyday. We drunk kissed at staff do but straight away we both said to forget it. 4 months ago he broke up with his girlfriend & I seem to listen to him constantly moaning about how hurt he was & lost.

Even people at my work thought that he was into me as well and that it was pretty obvious. We finally texting each other and everything was just going awesome. He even told me that wherever this may lead he is 100% invested in it, and that he is going to prove it etc. etc. Quite judgmental and making many assumptions.

Using this strategy is the ONLY way you can know how interested a man really is. When he makes the effort to get to know you, stay in touch and see you without your prompting, that’s the true test of his interest. The tendency for most women is to look at his actions that show he DOES like you and rely on them rather than look at the big picture of his overall behavior.

The first time he and hooked up he dropped off the face of the earth. Went 2 weeks with no contact at all. He finally stopped me in the parking lot at work and told me he was having a lot of life issues at once and was trying to sort them out, but he would be in touch. And he did, but it was like texting my grandma. So boring and dry compared to how it used to be. So I finally had to just come out and ask what the deal was.

In our first conversation after two months. We’ve been staying in touch for some time and seeing each other, but… we’ve had some fights etc. (of course he was ghosting every time that happened). And our last fight went pretty bad.

Spending time with other people is great, but sometimes there’s nothing you love more than being able to spend some quality time alone with him. Your lives together will never be dull. How dare these straight guys not wanna fuck someone with a dick! Just more of our homophobic, transphobic society at work!

I can barely feel him when we are together. He goes down on me all the time and we use toys a lot, but it’s just not the same. In the past, I guess I was blessed with guys who were ‘well hung’ and I could orgasm from just having sex. We’re so great together, this just isn’t fair. I love this guy and he does everything he can for me. He’s the perfect partner in almost every way.

Jumping on him once he gets back to rip his clothes off in search is a bit too much unless you smother yourselves like that usually. Get him to relax and be subtle about the search till you find it; it may not be there so it didn’t make this obvious. Another trick to finding out if your partner just slept with another girl is fake profiles on fetlife.com to check for physical signs on his body. Could be a hickey or scratches, those things are not easy to get rid of; more so, you’d find it if he has one. Has he been coming home with weird injuries on his body, says it’s nothing when you ask him? If down there smells like soap, especially feminine soap, that’s a huge sign.

If you forgive us for taking advantage of it while we can, we’ll forgive you for making us feel like we have to. Young women dating older men are aware of the power dynamics at play. With that, then, I offer older men interested in dating younger women the following non-expert, unofficial tips on how to do it without being the worst.